A validating new approach to the long-term grieving process that explains why we feel "stuck," why that's normal, and how shifting our perception of grief can help us grow-from the New York Times bestselling author of Motherless Daughters
"This is perhaps one of the most important books about grief ever written. It finally dispels the myth that we are all supposed to get over the death of a loved one."-Claire Bidwell Smith, author of Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
Aren't you over it yet? Anyone who has experienced a major loss in their past knows this question. We've spent years fielding versions of it, both explicit and implied, from family, colleagues, acquaintances, and friends. We recognize the subtle cues-the slight eyebrow lift, the soft, startled "Oh! That long ago?"-from those who wonder how an event so far in the past can still occupy so much precious mental and emotional real...